Have you struggled with friendships in life?
I bet you have. We all have at some point in life. And the thing about friendships is that it isn’t as discussed about in self-help books or in the media. But it is just as important as romance.
Humans are social creatures and a life without any friendships can be quite a lonely one.
My journey with friendships have been…interesting. I used to be quite clingy when I was younger and would feel abandoned when my friends hung out with others. Fast forward to my adult years, and I struggled with friends who just seem to take me for granted. I have/had quite a few friends who would constantly dump their issues on me but couldn’t reciprocate being a listening ear for me.
So it took awhile to figure out what was it that was blocking me from having real authentic connections with people and from attracting more people and friendships that were aligned with the “real” me.
It started from really digging into my emotions. How did I really feel when I was around this person? Was I being honest with how I felt? Was I being honest with them? Was I holding onto a friendship that made me feel bad about myself? Was I just friends with them to please them?
It’s freaking difficult to be honest with ourselves and just admit that being friends with Person A just made me feel like crap. Having an honest conversation with someone who makes you feel bad is also tough but offers a great growth opportunity.
If you have struggled with being cut off by a friend without any reason, you will understand how painful it feels to not have closure. Keeping that that in mind, I recently told someone how being friends with her made me feel – undermined and burdened (she’d send me at least 50 texts per day. No, I wish I were kidding) and it’d be hard to continue with something that didn’t make me feel good.
Getting honest with yourself and diving deep into your emotional guidance system is just one of many ways that you can start attracting joyful and more aligned friendships. There are way more tools – 20+ to be precise – in this Heart Chakra Guide where I’m calling for Beta-readers.
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