Friendships have their own flavours and seasons
As part of my new Era of Growth, I’ve been attempting to be more sociable and to get out of my house more. This allows me to nurture current friendships and start making new ones....
Read MoreWhat my Nostalgia is trying to tell me and why I’m listening this time
Nostalgia. Is it regret? A longing for the past? Are they just simply memories? Are they meant to be this bittersweet, this sad? Nostalgia is not something I’ve felt very often, until recently. Previously, it...
Read MoreHow to Heal from Limerence: The Hunger Loop Archetype
You’re not obsessed with them. you’re starving for something they can’t give you But here’s something no one says about limerence: it doesn’t happen to people who don’t feel deeply. it happens to people who...
Read MoreLimerent? Falling for the Unavailable and the Safety Illusion
Falling for the unavailable is a pattern, not a coincidence there’s a specific kind of limerence that nobody talks about honestly. the kind where the person is unavailable — and some part of you knew...
Read MoreHow to Heal from Limerence and The Identity Mirror Archetype
you’re not obsessed with who they are. you’re obsessed with who you become when you imagine being near them. here is the thing about your limerence that you haven’t quite let yourself see yet: it...
Read MoreHow to Heal the Limerence for an Unlived Life
it was never really about a person. it was about a life you quietly stopped believing was available to you. Where this particular form of limerence differs from the usual romantic versions there’s a form...
Read MoreWhat Intuition Really Feels Like (And How to Tell It From Fear)
When I first started following my intuition, I didn’t even know that was what it was called. I just knew I was listening to an “internal feeling.”A quiet voice.A nudge I couldn’t ignore. It has...
Read MoreWhat Happens When You Stop Playing Small (And Start Designing Your Life)
There was a period in my life where I realised something subtle but unsettling. I had been living smaller than the life that was actually available to me. Not in an obvious way. From the...
Read MoreLiving Through Uncertainty: Why the Season Before Clarity Matters
I spoke to someone last week who said something that many people quietly believe. She said: “I just want certainty before I make my next move.” She wasn’t asking for perfection. She just wanted enough...
Read MoreHow to Design Your Life in an Increasingly Chaotic World
We are in the year of 2026. In numerology, 2026 adds up to 10 — the Wheel of Fortune in tarot. Add 1 + 0 and you get 1, which corresponds to the Sun and...
Read MoreFeeling Behind in Love? Why Being Single in Your 30s Isn’t a Failure
You assume you have time. Until suddenly you don’t. When we’re young, life feels endless. You worry about toys.Exams.Crushes.Jobs. You procrastinate because there’s always “next year.” Until something shifts. The Awakening In recent years, I’ve...
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