Why are toxic relationships normalised?
Look around you at the movies or songs that are popular these days. Do you notice a running theme? Many of the ones that are supposed to be “love” songs or “romantic” comedies (usually neither...
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Why being in a situationship is keeping you away from true love
Another day, another definition for a different type of non-committal relationship. Why do we do this to ourselves yet lament the lack of love? Yesterday it was booty call, side-chick, friends with benefits and today...
Read MoreIs love really elusive? Maybe. Most of us just don’t know what love is or how to love others
I’ve been going through a summer of learning, where I’ve felt inspired to pick a topic to focus on – learn as much as I can on it through various media and then blogging about...
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How to stop ruminating over an ex? Signs & Strategies
You’ve probably heard this or felt this before: “It;s been x years and I still think about him..” “If I’ve never done x and y, we would still be together today…” Been there, done that....
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How to stop giving your attention to men who don’t deserve it
Something that I’ve observed with many of my clients as well as my friends – and no shame, even in my own dating history – is that many of us have had the experience of...
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How do you deal with a man who isn’t ready to commit?
Have you ever heard of any of the following from men that you’ve dated/are dating when you asked them if they were ready for a serious relationship: “I need to focus on my career right...
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5 reasons why you are so afraid of stating your needs in relationships
Something that I find interesting and perplexing at the same time about dating or just relationships in general, is how so many of us are so afraid of telling others what we really need. I’ve...
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Why being dishonest and deceitful in dating and relationships won’t get you anywhere
In my years of dating, being in relationships and coaching/counselling a ton of others who have been in a pickle, one thing I’ve found that sets so many people in their love lives, is how...
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5 reasons why you are still limerent despite saying you’d let go
This post is really about some of the questions I’ve received from readers and some observations I’ve made in my client sessions too. It’s a bit of a #truthbomb sorta post but I think alot...
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9 commonly experienced emotions in limerence: How often do you feel them?
People experiencing limerence tend to cycle through the same couple of emotions frequently. Here are the 9 most common ones. Use this as a checklist to see which ones you tend to resonate with the...
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