Are you choosing the right friends? Welcome to your Are you choosing the right friends? Quiz Being able to evaluate and select who are the right friends for you can make a huge difference to your life and well-being. Many of us struggle with friends who ghost us, are dishonest, drama-filled, uncommunicative and so much more and these can leave emotional scars. Just answer all 8 Questions to see how good you are at picking the right friendships. It takes no more than 2 minutes. After that, leave your email and receive your results immediately with some solutions! Deal? Let's start! 1. When you are upset with each other or are unhappy about something the other did, you let each other know honestly? Yes, we both value honesty and open communication and try to practice it often No, it’s hard to really voice my unhappiness so we act like everything is okay Not really, I’ve tried to before but my friend did not take it well. Not really, I do want to sometimes but I think it’d make things weird. 2. I know I can confide in my friends and count on them to be there for me when I feel troubled. Hmm, I don’t really confide in my friends. I feel uncomfortable doing so I try to confide in them but sometimes it feels like they don’t care Yes, I trust them to support me and I do the same for them I used to but don’t do that anymore because they don’t seem to understand me 3. You are all busy people but whenever you suggest an outing, your friend is enthusiastic and you start making plans to meet (and actually do) Not really, we plan but the meetings keep getting postponed Yes, we will even clear our schedules to meet one another No we just talk about meeting but don’t make any plans 4. Do you experience conflict, drama and unhappiness in your friendships? Sometimes, but not often and we talk about it candidly with each other More often than not, and honestly it’s making me feel quite exhausted Not really, except of course for the odd small episodes of unhappiness 5. My friends and I share very similar values and outlook on life A little. Honestly, we don’t get each other sometimes Here and there, but we are alright with the differences in views Yes, it’s not the same but very similar! Hm..I don't know what are my own values 6. How do you usually feel after meeting up with your friend? I feel the following (or similar): drained, annoyed, anxious, upset, irritated I really enjoy our meetups and outings and feel energised thereafter I don't really look forward to it and drag my feet but it usually turns out alright I go there hoping for a good time but always get disappointed somehow 7. When you guys text/call/make plans, which of the following usually happens? I’m usually the one initiating, but they always swiftly reply/plans are settled quickly They are usually the initiating, but I reply quickly! It's a little bit of both I initiate but they take really long to reply/things take awhile to be planned They initiate but I feel really reluctant to hang out with them or talk to them 8. Please select all of the following sentences that describes your friendships (Tick all that applies) I really want to have more friends but am reluctant to go out and meet new people I’ve outgrown some of them but I still hang out with them because I’ve known them for years I frequently feel unhappy with my friends and end up disliking or having conflicts with them Friends are unreliable, I am okay to be alone There are ups and downs in my friendships, on a whole, I am there for them as they are for me Thanks for taking the Are you choosing the right friends?! Your results and some tips are on the next page! Name Email Time's up Related
