Have you found yourself struggling with dates and relationships?

It’s like the right person just seems to be so elusive. OR everything is amazing the first couple of dates until he/she ghosts you, you find out that they aren’t what they said they were or things in general start to go south? 

Or perhaps you are in a loving relationship now but you still have self-doubts that come up from time to time?

These feels and experiences are normal.

Many of us experience blocks in love and romantic relationships

Apart from money, relationships are one of the biggest areas in life that many of us struggle with. And all these stems from a variety of life experiences that come together to give us the patterns that we see in our relationships.

From the media telling us that we aren’t good enough/goodlooking enough for someone to like us, to the various rather negative and potentially damaging messages that we’ve absorbed throughout life.

Do you struggle with dating and relationships? Find out in the quiz below!

One common block in relationships that I see in clients and in general, is emotional unavailability. Which is the inability or unwillingness to commit to, show up. They blew hot and cold, were inconsistent with their communication, plus their actions and words never matched up. Perhaps you were that person before in relationships too.

I used to be emotionally unavailable in love. I felt uncomfortable when my partner tried to get to know me better, I blew hot and cold, I was never very committed. It took awhile for me to realist this emotional unavailability stemmed from an intense fear of rejection and a lack of knowing regarding what healthy relationships look like.

Getting out of that unavailable rut was PAINFUL. It meant getting out of my comfort zone and dealing with emotions I preferred keeping a lid on. It meant taking the first step in opening up to others and allowing them and the relationship to unfold.

But today, I’m so much more present and open and free in romantic relationships. I don’t hide who I am and I gently allow the person and the relationship to unfold.

Dealing directly with what blocks your heart is one of the many ways to stop being emotionally unavailable in romance.

Working on your heart chakra in order to welcome in more romance and love

Our heart chakra is the seat of our relationships and connection with the self and with others. When our chakra is blocked we tend to struggle in relationships – we aren’t sure how to discern if a person is good for us or not and we struggle to express ourselves as well.

We all can unblock our heart chakras to enjoy better romance and relationships with others. Find out how in my book!