My retroactive jealousy story & how I healed
If you’ve been single most of your life and haven’t dated around much and went from there to being in a serious relationship? Woah, I think that’s tough – IF you’ve not got healthy beliefs...
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A pattern of limerence and emotional unavailability
A client recently asked me this question: “I have a pattern of falling into limerence, how can I avoid being limerent for unavailable men? I’m tired of getting my heartbroken over and over again by...
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If I have a tendency towards limerence, can I ever find true love?
What is love to you? When you think of love, what do you think of? What feelings come up for you? When I think of “love”, I think of…teamwork, similar values, soul recognition, wanting to...
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A divorce attorney’s thoughts on love and marriage: 10 takeaways
I’ve been on a recent love binge and just consuming everything and anything about love – to understand this elusive emotion a little better and also to see how we can all learn from the...
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Why so many limerent people remain stuck in limerence
This post is gonna be some kind of tough-love post. Having done this personal growth and coaching thing for awhile now, there’s been something that I’ve noticed about quite a number of people. Despite the...
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What is love? bell hooks’ all about love book and carthexis
What is love and what is your definition of love you know psychologist and philosophers and authors and all sorts of people over the years have actually been pondering the meaning of love but nobody...
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Limerence Workshop #1 – Can I experience love + emotional unavailability
Start healing from within and attracting loving partners and reciprocal relationships *All digital goods are non-refundable. Any duplicate payments or requests for refunds will be charged USD$5 for admin processing. Are you caught in a...
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How does selfishness destroy relationships (and keep you from true love)
Something that occurred to me recently is how much independence and individualism is present and valued in our society, to the point so many people are becoming rather selfish in their romantic relationships. Many seem...
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Why I’ve let go of cool girl syndrome in my relationships
For the longest time, I was the quintessential cool girl in relationships. Chill, low maintenance, oh-so-cool with everything. I pretended that I was cool with anything my partners did and said, although half the time...
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Jealousy and Limerence – How to Deal
So one of the biggest most common emotions that comes with limerence is jealousy. It is frequently experienced by the limerent person because of the level of obsession, possession and pedestalization of their limerent object....
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