Can limerence turn into love?
One of the biggest questions that limerents always ask about. It’s the number one wish and fantasy isn’t it? Someone that you’ve been eyeing for awhile and who has been in your thoughts for such...
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10 Obvious Signs of Limerence Symptoms
There are always signs and as I call it in research, antecedents or factors that determine if someone is little more pre-disposed to something, in this case, limerence, compared to others. Let’s look at the...
Read MoreLet’s stop wasting time and energy on men you don’t even like and who don’t share your values
Let’s start this with a story from my friend. So a friend was traveling in a very exotic country and she had a (male) guide to accompany her friend group and show them around the...
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How to 100% Cure from Limerence – The Re.Live Limerence Model
Whenever we are limerent, or when we are feeling some type of way (i.e. angry, sad), or something has happened, the immediate thing that most humans jump to is to immediately find a solution. And...
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Will my limerence ever go away?
This question comes courtesy of a client I’ve been working with. Susan* (not real name) has been limerent almost her entire life. And now, in her 40s, she worries that she will never find the...
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Friends Ghosting, Conflicts, Cutting You Off? How to deal with it
Let’s start with a story: Jeanne, Rach & Serene were tight friends. They’ve been in the same clique since they were 13 and remained close through middle school, high school and university, though each of...
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Desire better dates, love, affection and romantic intimacy? The Re.Lish Model is your answer
Deceiving Others. This is what the world calls a romance. Oscar Wilde Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope. Maya Angelou Love never...
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How to Cure Limerence – Developing a Sense of Self and Awareness
When you are limerent or experiencing limerence, you probably know how it all feels and what is going on. There are certain patterns that you’d keep seeing repeat itself over and over: Is It Love or...
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I am still not cured from limerence despite repeated therapy – why?
This is a question that I received from a potential client recently, with details changed: “I have been suffering from retroactive jealousy and perhaps limerence and my partner left me. I’ve tried all kinds of...
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Friends one minute not the next – how to deal when friendships abruptly end
Recently it was a birthday of someone I have not spoken to for about a year. I wished her and went on with my day and my life. It reminded me of this friendship though,...
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