How I got over Limerence for a Kpop Idol
Remember DBSK? No? Yup I’m just showing my age haha. I’m not too sure how it began, but after graduating high school, a friend introduced a couple of Kdramas and Kpop music to me –...
Read More6 30s and beyond Adult friendship challenges – What are they?
It’s one of the biggest problems that plagues many in our society – from late 20s to 30s and beyond. The minute we graduate from college, we slowly start to find that it’s getting harder...
Read MoreHow do you know if you are experiencing limerence – 12 symptoms
What is limerence? As a recap: Limerence is a profound state of intense longing and infatuation for someone even when it is not reciprocated. It involves intrusive thoughts, fantasies and mostly exists in the limerent’s...
Read MoreCan you recover from retroactive jealousy?
Retroactive jealousy, what is it? It is when you feel threatened by your partner’s past relationships and exes, although your partner may no longer even be in contact with them. Retroactive jealousy usually has several...
Read MoreHow do you know if you have retroactive jealousy?
What is retroactive jealousy? It is when you feel threatened by your partner’s past relationships. This could be due to a few things – insecurity, low self-esteem, fears, many reasons. This threatening feeling can feel...
Read MoreCan limerence turn into love?
One of the biggest questions that limerents always ask about. It’s the number one wish and fantasy isn’t it? Someone that you’ve been eyeing for awhile and who has been in your thoughts for such...
Read More10 Obvious Signs of Limerence Symptoms
There are always signs and as I call it in research, antecedents or factors that determine if someone is little more pre-disposed to something, in this case, limerence, compared to others. Let’s look at the...
Read MoreLet’s stop wasting time and energy on men you don’t even like and who don’t share your values
Let’s start this with a story from my friend. So a friend was traveling in a very exotic country and she had a (male) guide to accompany her friend group and show them around the...
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How to 100% Cure from Limerence – The Re.Live Limerence Model
Whenever we are limerent, or when we are feeling some type of way (i.e. angry, sad), or something has happened, the immediate thing that most humans jump to is to immediately find a solution. And...
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Will my limerence ever go away?
This question comes courtesy of a client I’ve been working with. Susan* (not real name) has been limerent almost her entire life. And now, in her 40s, she worries that she will never find the...
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