Can limerence turn into love?
One of the biggest questions that limerents always ask about. It’s the number one wish and fantasy isn’t it? Someone that you’ve been eyeing for awhile and who has been in your thoughts for such...
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Let’s stop wasting time and energy on men you don’t even like and who don’t share your values
Let’s start this with a story from my friend. So a friend was traveling in a very exotic country and she had a (male) guide to accompany her friend group and show them around the...
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How to Cure Limerence – Developing a Sense of Self and Awareness
When you are limerent or experiencing limerence, you probably know how it all feels and what is going on. There are certain patterns that you’d keep seeing repeat itself over and over: Is It Love or...
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5 inner child wounds that retroactive jealousy stems from
Retroactive jealousy actually stems from a couple of deep-seated, unhealed traumatic issues and wounds from childhood, or just generally a very difficult childhood without much nurturing or with a dysfunctional environment. There are six keychildhood...
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Limerence: The Ultimate Guide & Reference
This post is here to compile all my knowledge on limerence that I’ve posted on my blog since. I’ve written about some of the key things, but alot of my other tailored advice and strategies...
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5 signs you may be prone to retroactive jealousy
Do you find yourself dwelling on your partner’s past relationships, obsessing over their former flames, and feeling an overwhelming sense of jealousy that just won’t quit? If so, you might be experiencing what’s known as...
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My retroactive jealousy story & how I healed
If you’ve been single most of your life and haven’t dated around much and went from there to being in a serious relationship? Woah, I think that’s tough – IF you’ve not got healthy beliefs...
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A pattern of limerence and emotional unavailability
A client recently asked me this question: “I have a pattern of falling into limerence, how can I avoid being limerent for unavailable men? I’m tired of getting my heartbroken over and over again by...
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If I have a tendency towards limerence, can I ever find true love?
What is love to you? When you think of love, what do you think of? What feelings come up for you? When I think of “love”, I think of…teamwork, similar values, soul recognition, wanting to...
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What is love? bell hooks’ all about love book and cathexis
What is love and what is your definition of love you know psychologist and philosophers and authors and all sorts of people over the years have actually been pondering the meaning of love but nobody...
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