5 ways you’re keeping yourself from the success you deserve (and what you can do about it)

Have you had conversations like these in your head?

“The presentation in the morning was alright I guess, I think it could be better? But how much better could I have done? I mean, the room was so hot and I couldn’t even focus!! That wasn’t my fault. And Tommy in front? He’s sooo distracting, typing away on his laptop whilst I was speaking. Rude. But see, my less-than-fantastic presentation wasn’t my fault…”

“I really should ask for a pay rise. I’ve been taking on all these extra responsibilities and my pay isn’t increasing. But…I don’t even think I deserve a pay rise. And even if I do ask they sure as hell aren’t giving it to me. They’ve always been so stingy. Best to just keep my head down and work hard.”

I’m sure these may sound familiar – having heard it from someone or we might have said something similar at some point.

So what are some ways in which we are preventing our very own success? Here are 5 things we could be guilty of.

 

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How Bullshitters Not Just Survive But Thrive, Until…

At 7:30 pm, three hours after the office closing
time, it was finally our turn to go home. As we were about to leave the
premises, my boss made a phone call to his boss. And this was our
routine on almost all days: We often stayed back, and he always called
his boss while leaving. Not only that, we also sometimes worked on
public holidays when everyone else was enjoying with their families.
After all, my immediate boss was one of the rising stars in the
organisation and was well-known for “going the extra miles (not just a
mile)”.

As a young graduate engineer, almost 30 years ago, this was my first
foray into the corporate world, and little did I know that I was
encountering the first specimen of what would turn out to be a special
corporate species: Corporate Bullshitters or CBs in short.

CBs are that special breed of people who don’t do any solid work, but
they create an undetectable illusion of superior performance and
capabilities through a range of perception management strategies. And as
a result, they miraculously rise in the corporate hierarchy like helium
balloons.

This article is dedicate to the art of bullshitting and how it goes undetected in typically hazy corporate environment.

Corporate population: Three-basket distribution

Over the last 30 years, I have had the privilege of working with wide
variety of people, and overall, the corporate population can be packed
into three baskets:

  • W-S
  • S-W
  • W+S

W-S (Excellent work but not smart)

People falling in W-S basket are highly competent and do excellent
work, but unfortunately they lack the crucial ingredient required for
corporate growth: Smartness. By smartness, I mean they are not fluent
communicators and lack quick thinking on the feet. They may not dress as
smartly as others and often project lack of self-confidence in
meetings.

W-S are often overlooked for promotions, thanks to getting labelled
as “not managerial or leadership” type. Being the weakest in the power
pyramid, these people often take up the most difficult and challenging
tasks—and also get blamed first when things go wrong.

Overall, W-S form the backbone of an organisation. (When they apply for leave, everyone worries about “Who will do the work?”)

Finally, on the backs of W-S crowd, the people in the second basket (S-W) thrive.

S-W (Smart but no work)

S-W characters are incompetent and care a damn about actual work or
team’s or organisational interests, and simply stay clear of any direct
responsibilities. While personally not doing solid work, they
relentlessly and ruthlessly delegate, and use the characters in the
first basket (W-S) to get the things done. And when it comes to credit,
they don’t mind gobbling it all.

But S-W have one great strength, which enables them to sail smoothly:
Smartness. They are master communicators and manipulators, and their
body language is forceful. Projecting high self-confidence outside (even
if they suffer from deep insecurities inside), they always give an
impression of being a “driver” or “leader”.

S-W are often labelled as “leadership or managerial material” and enjoy steady growth in corporate hierarchy.

W+S (Excellent work & also smart)

Few people are both great at work and smart to the optimum level.
Deservedly, they rise to the very top of the corporate hierarchy. If S-W
people feel shaky ever, it is in front of W+S characters.

So, which basket Corporate Bullshitters belong to? No guesses here!
Obviously, CBs are the highly distilled version of the second basket
(S-W) characters. I am sure you’ve come across a few exceptional
characters in your career who are incompetent and irresponsible, but by
the sheer power of their “talking talent”, they end up becoming bosses
of more competent people. How does it happen?

Deception of perception

Ideally, in an organisation anyone not performing and contributing to
the hard results should not survive, leave alone thrive. So how do CBs
rise?

The answer lies in one word: Perception.

What we perceive is often not the whole reality. (Look at the picture again at the top of the article: Can you see a cow?)

Unlike others, CBs know a little secret, which is their ticket to comfortable ride: There is performance and then there is perception of performance. Their game plan comprises two simple steps:

  • Step 1: Surround yourself with the best performers and dump the real work on them.
  • Step 2: While work is taken care of by someone
    else, focus squarely on managing bosses’ perceptions, which means fluent
    communications, forceful presence in meetings and projection of
    “managerial/leadership” traits.

This two-step strategy works well in typically hazy corporate
environments where how you look, talk and walk often obscures what you
actually do when you sit in the chair.

So can you spot a CB in the crowd?

Bullshitting: Classic symptoms

To spot Bullshitters around you, look at the “managerial” type of characters around you and ask the following questions:

Work-related symptoms

  • Teflon character: Who is like teflon with nothing
    sticking to them? Who invariably stays clear of any direct
    responsibility for difficult, challenging work? (Classic CBs act like
    postman; any difficult stuff coming their way simply gets posted to
    others in the team.)
  • Busybody: Who stays busy with trivial stuff like
    attending useless meetings, touring here and there, emailing, shuffling
    some useless papers, etc. instead of doing solid work that requires
    focused attention? (CBs typically act busier than others.)
  • Exploiter: Who surrounds himself/herself with best
    of the people available in the office–and exploits them? (CBs are like
    islands of incompetence in the sea of competence.)
  • Resource sucker: Who wants more and more resources
    and always remains on look out to corner more people into the
    department? (Highly insecure, CBs keep sucking organisational resources
    in their direction.)

Perception-related symptoms

  • Master communicator: Who are the most fluent communicators with answers for anything, anytime?
  • Confident: Who projects dominant presence in the office?
  • Informant: Who excels in “keeping the boss informed”?
  • Chameleon: Who behaves nicely with bosses and clients, but ruthlessly with own subordinates?
  • Extra miler: Who does nothing solid during the
    normal working hours, but can’t stop “going the extra mile” by staying
    late, working on weekends–and even plugging in from vacation?

CBs thrive until…

So is the rise of Corporate Bullshitters unstoppable in an organisation? Yes, until…

Performance becomes more important than perception of performance

Is bullshitting possible in sports or art or music? Can you hide your
performance in a football match or swimming competition or stage
performance? No! In all situations where a person’s individual
performance is on display for everyone to see in black and white, CBs
have no chance of survival. I have seen the bottom of S-W basket falling
off for some CBs when they suddenly meet a boss who squarely focuses on
“performance”–and is too smart to be swayed by “smart talk” alone.

To conclude, nothing much has changed since I first entered the
corporate world 30 years ago: Even today, in most organisations, despite
elaborate appraisal systems, perception of performance (staying late,
talking smartly, acting confident, etc.) is mistaken as performance.

In the garden you pass by every day, if someone planted a few plastic
flowers among with the real ones, would you be able to spot them? From a
distance, you may not be able to see the difference unless you go real
close. Same is the situation in many organisations where Bullshitters
intermingle among real performers–and bloom. And typically, like
plastic flowers, they go undetected and outlast the real flowers.

In the words of Sir Arthur Conan Doyle (remember Sherlock Holmes?): “There is nothing more deceptive than an obvious fact.”

The reality of a person’s character, competence and contribution often lies behind the smoke screen of our quick perceptions. Ignore the smoke!

(Note: If you still can’t see the cow, please search “visual
intelligence cow” in Google images. You should be able to meet the cow
there.)

Source: LinkedIn, Atul Mathur

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Quote of the day

“Ships don’t sink because of the water around them; ships sink because of the water that gets in them. Don’t let what’s happening around you get inside you and weigh you down.”

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Quote of the day

“Stop creating obstacles and hardship with limiting thought patterns before even taking the first step. You will come to realize lots of things in life are not so difficult as you make it seem.”

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Quote of the Day

Short-term memory is improved 20% by walking in nature.

Did you know?

That conversations of a more substantial
nature as opposed to “small talk” were correlated with greater happiness.

– Mehl et al (2010).

Perhaps I should do up a “did you know” section where I post interesting pieces of research from journals I read everyday (as part of my job, ha)?

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