Ask yourself: Is there a way that I could love myself AND be in the relationship too?

Ask yourself: Is there a way that I could love myself AND be in the relationship too?:Some excerpts:

A great litmus test for understanding whether something is our responsibility is to look at whether the efforts we throw at it make a positive difference over time.

If nothing happens or we experience temporary change and then it reverts to the typical pattern, it’s because whatever we’re trying to influence or control, is not our responsibility or within our control, hence why twisting ourselves into a pretzel in order to ‘make’ someone become available, is a waste of time.

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